123. The Swinger’s Site

The morning after The Mystery Man, I sat and wrote my blog about it. I have been thinking that the casual sex with 30 year olds is probably not the path I want to take again. I want the passion and excitement of The Toolman with somebody who loves me. But I need a man…Read more 123. The Swinger’s Site

121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

I snap chatted to the Seeking Arrangement Guy for days.  While he kept the chat going he did so slowly, revealing little about himself, in increasing increments.  He kept inviting me over to his place, which I wasn’t feeling reckless enough to do.  However I was getting ready to take the plunge and meet him for…Read more 121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

105. My world explodes

Over the following days, The Toolman and I sent a few “good morning” and "good night" texts, but it didn’t feel the same.  We had lost this habit during the last three weeks and it felt forced and disingenuous. During that week I checked his activity on the couples website and it made me mad…Read more 105. My world explodes

91. The Toolman and The Golden Shower

The sex after our conversation about our night with Mr & Mrs Playful was intense and giving.  We did everything we could to make the other feel good, like we always do.  Perhaps when we are with other couple we need to hold back a bit and not be so giving, and learn to ask…Read more 91. The Toolman and The Golden Shower