146. The Toolman rises from the dead

So I saw this profile on Tinder.  The name was right, the age was a couple of years younger than the truth and there were no face pictures, just a picture of a guy in a panda suit.  It was not the kind of profile I would ever match with, but the bio sure sounded familiar:…Read more 146. The Toolman rises from the dead

127. Superman (47)

He was one of the first guys who messaged me on the Swingers Site. We talked easily and I found myself smiling whenever we chatting on text. He was a separated father of four grown kids who lived about thirty minutes away.  We discovered many things about each other and I was enjoying an adult conversation…Read more 127. Superman (47)

123. The Swinger’s Site

The morning after The Mystery Man, I sat and wrote my blog about it. I have been thinking that the casual sex with 30 year olds is probably not the path I want to take again. I want the passion and excitement of The Toolman with somebody who loves me. But I need a man…Read more 123. The Swinger’s Site

121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

I snap chatted to the Seeking Arrangement Guy for days.  While he kept the chat going he did so slowly, revealing little about himself, in increasing increments.  He kept inviting me over to his place, which I wasn’t feeling reckless enough to do.  However I was getting ready to take the plunge and meet him for…Read more 121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

105. My world explodes

Over the following days, The Toolman and I sent a few “good morning” and "good night" texts, but it didn’t feel the same.  We had lost this habit during the last three weeks and it felt forced and disingenuous. During that week I checked his activity on the couples website and it made me mad…Read more 105. My world explodes

98. Lunch with The Toolman and The Swingers

We had been talking to a couple for a few months on the swingers website and finally decided to move forward with a meeting. They insisted on a drinks date before any kind of hook up in order to establish if the flirty chemistry of our chats would translate to real life. We arranged a…Read more 98. Lunch with The Toolman and The Swingers

85. The Blog Dilemma

Now that I am seeing The Toolman exclusively, I don’t have as much to write about, Beloved Reader. And as The Toolman is my most voracious reader, I am aware that what I write may upset him. I want to keep writing but struggle with this dilemma.  Can I write honestly about a relationship I…Read more 85. The Blog Dilemma

84. The Toolman and the park

I had been away for a week and The Toolman had messaged me at least every morning and night. “Good morning Gorgeous.” “Sweet dreams Sexy.” I liked it very much that I wasn’t out of sight, out of mind.  He sent me videos messages and even sent me a video of himself in a secluded…Read more 84. The Toolman and the park

83. Misadventures with The Toolman

It had been a busy week at work and I’d been filling my nights with gym, but with a week off and a short trip to look forward to, my days were going by fast.  The Toolman and I message daily and he comes to see me whenever he can, which is usually once a week…Read more 83. Misadventures with The Toolman