I matched on a dating app with a 35 year old guy who was a chef on oil rigs. He told me he worked three weeks on the rig, then flew home for a three week break, during which time he helped out a friend who owned a restaurant. He was strange on our chats, but…Read more 126. The NoShow (35) and The Mauritian (38)
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125. The Gentleman – part 2
I knew it wasn’t right. And I knew this was going to hurt him. And it made me feel like shit. The Gentleman had sent me a couple of texts, hoping I’d enjoyed the day after our night together, wishing me sweet dreams and telling me how much fun the night had been. It had…Read more 125. The Gentleman – part 2
124. The Gentleman (41)
We chatted constantly in the two days before our dinner date. The Gentleman discussed the FLR paradigm at length, discussing various aspects and checking in with me about how I felt about it. I didn’t know how I felt about it. I liked the idea of his assured fidelity and my freedom to have other…Read more 124. The Gentleman (41)
123. The Swinger’s Site
The morning after The Mystery Man, I sat and wrote my blog about it. I have been thinking that the casual sex with 30 year olds is probably not the path I want to take again. I want the passion and excitement of The Toolman with somebody who loves me. But I need a man…Read more 123. The Swinger’s Site
121 – The Mystery Man – part 2
I snap chatted to the Seeking Arrangement Guy for days. While he kept the chat going he did so slowly, revealing little about himself, in increasing increments. He kept inviting me over to his place, which I wasn’t feeling reckless enough to do. However I was getting ready to take the plunge and meet him for…Read more 121 – The Mystery Man – part 2
120. The Chef’s final installment
Promptly after I sent The Chef my text, he responded. "Hey. First off let me apologize for just dropping off the face of the earth. Has been a pretty strange year. Have spent some time back home as dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer earlier this year and has gone through treatment and we are waiting…Read more 120. The Chef’s final installment
119. So what do I want?
I showed Mika my dating profile recently and she confirmed my concern that it was a little confusing. I am so unsure of what I want to find, and my profile reflected that. The photos are attractive (and I am still a little uncomfortable that all the pictures were all either taken by or for…Read more 119. So what do I want?
118. A little self examination
My week has been full of social engagements, as is normal at this time of year, and I have been putting the word out amongst my friends that the time has come to find a new job. Many of my friends are ex-work colleagues who know my value and can’t believe the nonsense I am…Read more 118. A little self examination
115. Woah..backslide!
Well that was weird. I decided to splurge on a massage and facial this morning, as I had awoken with a bit of a sore neck. I booked into the Resort’s fancy day spa and lay on the table, naked but for the terrible disposable underwear that is required. As the massage began I became…Read more 115. Woah..backslide!
115. Daydream or nightmare?
As I waited for my flight to depart I got a message from The Boy Next Door. For some reason he was telling me all about his new 50 year old divorced neighbour who just moved in and he had fucked on the first day he met her. That Boy has never heard the phrase…Read more 115. Daydream or nightmare?
I may have over corrected 