146. The Toolman rises from the dead

So I saw this profile on Tinder.  The name was right, the age was a couple of years younger than the truth and there were no face pictures, just a picture of a guy in a panda suit.  It was not the kind of profile I would ever match with, but the bio sure sounded familiar:…Read more 146. The Toolman rises from the dead

142. The Captain returns…continued

I expected to hear from The Captain all day on Monday, and my girlfriends checked in all day long to find out if he had called. He did not. On Tuesday I had enough waiting and took control, sending him a message. “Hi there.  Do you have some time to chat today?" “Sorry busy atm…I’ll…Read more 142. The Captain returns…continued

126. The NoShow (35) and The Mauritian (38)

I matched on a dating app with a 35 year old guy who was a chef on oil rigs.  He told me he worked three weeks on the rig, then flew home for a three week break, during which time he helped out a friend who owned a restaurant. He was strange on our chats, but…Read more 126. The NoShow (35) and The Mauritian (38)

125. The Gentleman – part 2

I knew it wasn’t right.  And I knew this was going to hurt him.  And it made me feel like shit. The Gentleman had sent me a couple of texts, hoping I’d enjoyed the day after our night together, wishing me sweet dreams and telling me how much fun the night had been. It had…Read more 125. The Gentleman – part 2

123. The Swinger’s Site

The morning after The Mystery Man, I sat and wrote my blog about it. I have been thinking that the casual sex with 30 year olds is probably not the path I want to take again. I want the passion and excitement of The Toolman with somebody who loves me. But I need a man…Read more 123. The Swinger’s Site

121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

I snap chatted to the Seeking Arrangement Guy for days.  While he kept the chat going he did so slowly, revealing little about himself, in increasing increments.  He kept inviting me over to his place, which I wasn’t feeling reckless enough to do.  However I was getting ready to take the plunge and meet him for…Read more 121 – The Mystery Man – part 2

96. The Toolman is tired.

It had been a horrible week at work for both The Toolman and I.  We were tired and missing each other, not to mention sexually frustrated.  We had managed to meet for a drink during the week and talked about our progress on the swinging site, before The Toolman walked me to my car where we had…Read more 96. The Toolman is tired.

95. The Brunette, The Lawyer and The Pilot

The Brunette sent me a text on my birthday inviting me for a drink to celebrate.  I had responded immediately with some suggestions for times and dates, but heard no more from her. Kids these days, I tells ya. I didn’t really hold it against her.  It was strange we were friends at all, but…Read more 95. The Brunette, The Lawyer and The Pilot

93. Another conversation with The Toolman

It was Friday morning and time for The Toolman and I to firm up our plans for the weekend. We had been texting all week with each other and with another couple we had met on the app. There was something about this new couple that didn’t sit well with me so I wasn’t really…Read more 93. Another conversation with The Toolman